Should I Get Another Dog After The Other Dog Has Died

Deciding how soon one should get a new dog after one has died is merely a personal decision. There is no rule as to when is the perfect time. We all heal in different ways and should be allowed to recover from our loss how ever we see fit.

Some people may take a few months or years to grieve over the loss of their dogs while others are ready to adopt a new dog within a couple of weeks or maybe days. Of course, there is a minority of them choose not to embark on another relationship with dogs again.

There are many reasons as to how these individual owners base their decision. Here are some of the most common reasons. Again I stress, these aren’t wrong or right reasons, it’s simply a matter of what makes us feel most comfortable.

Owners Who Took In Another Dog Within Days/Weeks

The new dog is a good distraction as it quickly fills the emotional void and dilutes their grief.

They are used to the companionship of a dog and to the sounds it makes around the house. The absent of these distractions remind them more of their loss, making the grieving period more unbearable.

Their lifestyles are organized around dog ownership such as walking, feeding, giving vitamins and healthy products like cbd for dog,  and caring for a dog. Without these chores, owners feel their life is in “chaos.” For example, a bachelor who does morning run or hiking with his dog and without his companion he may not find these activities pleasurable. The Elderly is another group of owners who is also greatly affected.

Owners Who Took In Another Dog Within Months/Years

They feel disloyal or guilty to their deceased dog if they would to share their love with a new dog so quickly.

They want to deal with old issues “completely” before embarking onto a new relationship.

They want to take the time to travel before continuing the responsibilities of dog ownership such as house training a new puppy.

Owners Who Never Took In Another Dog…Ever

They feel that the new dog will be a constant reminder of the one who is gone.

The emotional pain of loss was too great to take in another new dog.

Generally, most people manage to get though all the stages of grief. While some become stuck and cannot reflect upon the good times they’d shared with the late dog. They cannot get over the loss of their dog and feel they cannot love another. Sometimes, replacing a new dog may give us an important reflection and insight which we never experienced with the previous dog.

The Biggest Mistake Owners and Well-Meaning Friends Can Make Is…

Getting an exact identical dog of the predecessor. Same breed, sex, size, color, and worst of all naming it the same as the predecessor; pretending it never gone! Although doing so may fill your emotional void quickly, but this will only bring you more headache and unhappiness for your new dog if you expect him to be an exact replica of the dog you have lost.

Just like humans, each dog is unique individual with his own talents, intelligent, and unparalleled characteristics. The newcomer should not be compared to your previous dog. Do not expect him to master all the skills your previous dog had in a short amount of time, this is simply unfair to him. Bear in mind, your previous dog had many years to master those skills. They didn’t come to him naturally, so go easy on the new pup.

The key here is to focus on the positive aspects of the new relationship with your dog. He will have his own personality, one that will bring you different pleasures and challenges. Welcome each of them and you will soon enjoy as rich and rewarding life with your new dog as you did with your last one.

Having said that, if you cannot welcome your new dog with the time, attention, and affection he deserves, you might want to hold on to that thought until you feel you are ready. Owning a dog, be it the first or tenth, is a lifetime investment. Just as much as we deserve their unconditional love, they too deserve our undivided care.

Emma

About Emma

Emma Logan is the content coordinator of Beverly Lahaye Institute. She’s been freelancing for many years and now focuses on WordPress development and blog design